06-30-2020, 04:37 PMjRuutu Wrote:

06-30-2020, 04:21 PMJayWhy Wrote: This is where you're losing the thread. I don't find men kissing to be attractive personally. I also don't see a conversation that I'm not involved in, like the femboy hooter thread, and decide I must make it known that I'm not attracted to this. It's not that your silence would make you homophobic or not, it's that it isn't necessary to push your views, beliefs or values on anybody else under any circumstance. If you were individually asked about it, sure. That's on the person asking as well. But you have no reason to outwardly state opposition without provocation, and nobody does.

To simplify it, I don't like something that someone else does, I can choose to just personally not like it and support them by not saying anything negative about it thus allowing them to live their life enjoying what they enjoy and me live my life enjoying what I enjoy.

I hear and agree completely what you are saying. If you look at my position - how do I convince someone that I´m not a homophobic? If I made the mistake to comment when I should have not commented?

It is possible and quite doable to confront homophobic beliefs within yourself, but it’ll take a good bit of self reflection. Watch media by LGBTQ+ creators and featuring queer characters, get a sense of what they have to deal with. Educate yourself on LGBTQ+ issues. If you see homophobia/transphobia in your real life like on social media, call them out on it or cut them off. Surround yourself with positive voices. Focus on acceptance.