02-01-2021, 10:57 PMteztify Wrote:

02-01-2021, 10:44 PMfrithjofr Wrote: It just seems weird that this is the targeted harassment complaint that gets responded to, meanwhile after NOLA's punishment thread for me breaking the 3 lines rules in the playoffs, I got some major targeted harassment, including homophobic and ableist slurs, and when I complained about them to Nour, I never heard back. Still have not heard back to this day, over a year later. I took it up with Corey, then commissioner, and he didn't get back to me for months. Not until I publicly posted about the lack of response I was receiving from HO. Then, and only then, did I get a response from Corey that he promised he would look into it, and... then I never heard another word of it after that.

But sure, ban fucking rags for reacting with an emoji on discord. Dude could have just, idk, ignored/muted rags.

Ps:

get gnomed, chump.

Without speaking to situations I'd have to go back and look at, this is an example of a big problem I have with reactions to things like this.

People complain about decisions, but they also complain about a lack of consistency. What do you want? Should we look at reactions like this and take the feedback to heart and learn from it and become a better HO? Or should we stick to our guns and not suspend things because something like what happened to Dankoa - which should've been suspended - wasn't in the past?

Do you want to complain about decisions or consistency, 'cuz we've been having it both ways and I'm not sure how reasonable that is.

It can't be both? Why can't I complain about both?

I mean, really, why can't I complain about both? I think this punishment was silly, pointless, and heavy handed. I also wish that when I was being followed around the site and harassed in multiple threads that something had been done about it. The two opinions are not mutually exclusive.

See, it's too late for the punishments to come down for the stuff I was complaining about. I've already gone inactive for 6 months. The people harassing me already won, pushed me away from the site. I don't really give a shit what happens to them now. My point was simply that as a guy who's tentatively coming back to the league, it's frustrating to see HO and ownership condemning a guy for something trivial like this, while when I was getting hardcore harassed Nour told me in a thread to shut up and take my lumps.