02-02-2021, 01:45 PMztevans Wrote:

02-02-2021, 01:40 PMSlashACM Wrote: I'm not trying to mock the gnome thing, im just really disappointed in the behavior of the user to obviously make a bigger deal out of something than it is. I personally view the report to HO about the "harassment" is bad faith, they then retired and deleted the OP, appearing to attempt to unretire but is now assuring users they are not unretiring. They keep saying we "don't know the whole story" but refuse to tell it.

I understand the don't be an asshole thing but the stuff I just listed seems more the actions of an asshole than discord reacting after someone tells you to stop

I don't think it's his responsibility to tell the whole story, nor HO's responsibility to divulge everything that was shared if there is more to the story.  I didn't see it as my responsibility to tell "the whole story" when a certain former user said several hateful and discriminating things in a LR I once shared with the individual, until he brought it upon himself to question my integrity.  I would have much preferred to let it go at the time, and it's still not something I take great joy in discussing, as probably noted by my refusal to mention the user's name.

Maybe you're right, and if so then, yeah, both parties are assholes.  So again, I ask, why can't we just ... not be assholes?

If you're not willing to tell the whole story then you can't be upset when people only know the story of one side... You can't have it both ways.

As for the situation it's unfortunate and it wasn't your responsibility until you were dragged into it.

As for the assholes thing .. wishful thinking. All you can do is try to be your best self