As fucked as this situation is we have to remember that many many Russian people do not want this war. And like samee said, it’s really xenophobic.

I don’t want people to hate me because of decisions of my president or leader. So don’t do the same to others.

There is nothing wrong with being Russian. There is everything wrong with being a Putin bootlicker or sycophant. 
If you really want to distance yourself from everything Russian — pay for a name change.