Option 2

My player can't go in the penalty box, so he can't spend some time in there to think about what he did. If I'm not mistaken, he never got a penalty for delaying the game because of the trapezoid and he never fought (yet) so no chance for him to go "think about what he did'.
For him, being a goalie is to stay calm and almost never let your emotion take over. They are the last defense so they have to show they are ready for anything and they will be there for their teammates.  
I know there are some goalies in the old time that were happy to participate in a fight or to be physical with players around their net, but I think it's something that shouldn't happen that often. It show you are not anymore in control and that can definitively affect your game performance.
So no penalty for him, but he try he's best when they are in PK to not get socred against.